MARRIAGE! What’s the need, really? Is it just a social construct designed to keep us in line, or is it a genuine expression of love and commitment? Or perhaps it's just a clever ruse to get us to sign up for a lifetime of compromise, sacrifice, and Netflix password sharing. Whatever the reason, it's clear that marriage remains a ubiquitous and confounding phenomenon, leaving many to ask: why bother?
Of course, there are the romantics among us who will argue that marriage is a beautiful, transcendent experience that elevates us to new heights of emotional intimacy and spiritual connection. And to that, I say: "sentimental hogwash." Marriage, like any other human institution, is a complex, messy, and often absurd affair, full of contradictions, paradoxes, and unwritten rules.
So, let's not get too carried away with the fairy tale narrative, shall we?
And yet, despite all the cynicism and skepticism, marriage remains a deeply alluring and mysterious institution, capable of inspiring profound love, loyalty, and devotion in those who dare to take the leap. So, perhaps the question shouldn't be "what's the need?" but rather "what's the catch?" What is it about marriage that continues to captivate and transform us, even in the face of overwhelming evidence to the contrary? Whatever the answer, one thing is clear: marriage remains an enigmatic, infuriating, and utterly fascinating aspect of human experience.
Let's get real for a moment. Marriage, as an institution, has been around for thousands of years, and it's evolved over time to reflect changing social norms, cultural values, and economic realities.
And yet, despite all this change, marriage remains a fundamentally conservative institution, rooted in traditional notions of family, property, and social status. So, the question is: can marriage adapt to the changing needs and aspirations of modern society, or is it doomed to remain a relic of the
past?
Of course, there are those who would argue that marriage is an outdated institution, a vestige of a bygone era that's no longer relevant in today's world. And to that, I say: fair point. Marriage, as we know it, may not be the best fit for everyone, especially in an age of increasing individualism, diversity, and non-traditional family arrangements. Does that mean we should abolish marriage altogether? I think not. Instead, perhaps we should be working to reinvent and redefine marriage for the 21st century, making it more flexible, and responsive to the needs of all individuals and families.
Marriage remains a powerful symbol of love, commitment, and social recognition, providing a sense of belonging, identity, and community for those who participate in it. And, let's be real, who doesn't love a good wedding? The food, the music, the dancing, the open bar...it's all just a big, joyful celebration of love and life. So, even if marriage isn't for everyone, it's undeniable that it remains a deeply meaningful and resonant institution in our culture.
Despite all the romance and ritual surrounding marriage, it's clear that the institution is facing some significant challenges in the modern era. From rising divorce rates to changing social norms and expectations, marriage is under pressure to adapt and evolve in response to the needs of a rapidly changing world. So, what's the future of marriage? Will it continue to thrive and evolve, or will it become a relic of the past? Only time will tell.
Marriage remains a complex human institution that continues to captivate and confound us. Whether you're a romantic, a cynic, or something in between, it's undeniable that marriage remains a powerful symbol of love, commitment, and social recognition in our culture. So, what's the need for marriage? Perhaps the answer is simple: marriage is what we make of it.
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Henry L. Dongotey
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MA. Strategic Public Relations Management
BA. Communication Studies
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