If your partner makes you feel special on important occasions such as Valentineâ€™s day and your birthday, then miserable the rest of the year then you should be mindful of these three major signs that show your place in their lives.Â
Â Not doing anything social together on special occasions
How often do you go out to eat or go see a movie with your partner? If you donâ€™t remember the last time, you had a date night or did anything social with your partner on a special occasion, itâ€™s a sign that you are an option and not a priority.
Danielle Forshee a Doctor of Psychology cautions that some people just donâ€™t find birthdays and anniversaries to be all that important, but that alone isnâ€™t necessarily a sign that the relationship is over.Â
If you are with someone who does not value (special occasions) yet you do, itâ€™s a matter of how you manage that inherent difference because that could be a potential problem.
But if youâ€™ve told someone â€œIâ€™d like to set aside some time to celebrate our anniversary in a meaningful wayâ€ and they consistently ignore that request, youâ€™d have some grounds to believe that your requests and maybe you arenâ€™t being prioritized.
The communication between the both of you lacks quality
Without communication, thereâ€™s no relationship. You two hardly communicate and when you do, the conversation lacks quality and essence. You donâ€™t discuss anything meaningful; you guys donâ€™t talk about your goals and aspirations neither about theirs. You also donâ€™t make plans together either.
Anytime you raise a topic or ask about the plans of the relationship, they always shove it off
But someone who truly loves you and has your interest at heart will always want to your goals and help you achieve them. When next you see them avoiding such relevant topics, it only shows that you are not a priority. They could open up to someone else whom they are always open to, discuss such vital issues with and share literally everything withâ€¦BUT NOT YOU.
They are constantly lying
They constantly lie to you and hide vital information from you which they present as â€œseeming insignificantâ€. But by the time you find out, youâ€™ll often find those things to be quite significant contrary to what they made you believe. Sometimes you find them acting suspiciously as if theyâ€™re trying to hide something from you. They even get jumpy and anxious around you.
A relationship should be founded on honesty and trust and the minute u canâ€™t trust you partner; you have to question if your relationship is heading anywhere.