My girlfriend and I are extremely happy together, but sheÂ toldÂ me that two of her exes had a bigger penis than me.Â Depending on the circumstances, my penis is normally about 5.8-6.2in.
She said her most recent ex wasÂ bigger, at 7in, and theÂ other was maybe an inch longer.Â Iâ€™ve always been self-conscious about it, but this makes me feelÂ worse. For a long time Iâ€™ve wanted to get surgery, but she swears that I amÂ the best sexual partner sheÂ has had. She also says that she and her most recent ex couldnâ€™t have sex in as many positions, because it would be painful. If I want to get surgery, should I? She says that Iâ€™m perfect the way I am and she thinks Iâ€™m the perfect size.
Listen more carefully to your girlfriend. She is telling you that you are â€œperfectâ€, but all you hear is â€œher exâ€™s penis was biggerâ€.
It is common to use half a story to confirm the negative beliefs one has about oneâ€™s self. Work on soothing your male size anxiety and, instead of comparing yourself with others, focus on giving and receiving pleasure.
Unfortunately, pornography movies tend to emphasise size and promote the untrue notion that a huge penis automatically produces greater pleasure for a partner. Donâ€™t buy into this rubbish; it is physiologically unsound.
An intelligent lover who is willing to learn how to please a partner â€“ without even using his penis â€“ will always be the most appreciated.
Pamela Stephenson Connolly is a US-based psychotherapist who specialises in treating sexual disorders.
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1. Focus on family
Yea you might not have succeeded in starting a family of your own, but now is a good time to focus on the ones you have already. Call relatives you havenâ€™t spoken with in a while and plan to meet up with some if possible. You will be glad you did. Organizing a family fair or trip is also not a bad idea. You all get to spend quality time together.
2. Take time to plan your Christmas gift
This season is another opportunity to appreciate important people in your life and those that made your year a blast. You can do this by making out time to plan gifts for them. It doesnâ€™t have to be expensive but it should show that you appreciate them being a part of your life.
3. Throw your party
The best cure against loneliness is being with people. You don't have to attend all the concerts to be around people, throwing a party is one of the best ways to do that. Invite all your friends that you haven't seen in months. You all can have a good time.
4. Indulge yourself in some Christmas treats
There is no need to ignore all the delicious Christmas treats in the store, just because you donâ€™t have a partner to share them with. Stock up on goodies, Christmas chickens and all the other tasty treats that comes with Christmas. They all taste just as great, whether you have a partner or not.
5. Be thankful
This year might not have gone the way you wanted it to. This doesn't stop you from being thankful because the following year may hold lots of surprises for you. A thankful heart is a merry heart. Appreciate everything you have this year and hope for the best, next year.
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